Tomorrow marks my twins’ first birthday, which means that it’s also been a year surviving having three kids three and under.
Tonight, my husband and I reminisced in our kitchen, drinking my favorite sparkling wine while I made banana cakes for our twin boys and funfetti cupcakes for this weekend’s birthday party guests.
We recalled how my water broke exactly five weeks before my due date and how we found ourselves woefully underprepared. The hospital bags were unpacked, the car seats weren’t buckled in, and no meals were prepped. Thankfully we did have a plan our then-two-year-old to be with my parents, which turned out to be the only peace of mind we actually needed.
We recalled that the drive to the hospital while in labor didn’t seem as bad the second time around, that the same nurse was there as when we had our first, and that when I was asked what music I wanted to be played during my c-section, the only thing I could think of was All I Want for Christmas Is You on repeat (which they did).
I remember the first few weeks the boys were home from the hospital being particularly rough both with and for my toddler. My husband consistently became the favorite parent, she was confused and aggressive with the babies, and the attention she always received as the only granddaughter and niece on both sides of the family temporarily dissipated in anticipation of the brand-new babies. Thankfully, out of the hardship, came some of my favorite moments with our daughter: taking her to a fun tearoom, going the trampoline park, and playing doctor with her stuffed animals over and over again.
The twins were our first babies we got to experience out of the COVID bubble, which meant road tripping with everyone to a cousin’s wedding, getting to be out at restaurants and events around town, and dressing in clothes other than jammies.
My husband and I like to say almost every night that we’ve never been as exhausted as we are today since we were yesterday. But we also agree that we’re incredibly fortunate, have the most perfect kids, and are lucky enough to have the most beautiful life as a family of five.
Takeaways:
Some of my takeaways over the last year of surviving three kids three and under to pass onto those of you who might go through something similar in the future:
Pack that bag! The last thing you want to be doing after your water breaks is running around trying to find the hairbrush that your toddler was using as a microphone during her Beyonce solo.
Set aside extra time with the older sibling(s)! It was so great getting time along with my daughter and getting to discover things that we like doing together.
Get out of the house! It’s so hard to bring the whole family out together, especially when there’s babies involved. The first time we left the house as a family of five, it took an hour and a half to leave. But we did it again, and again, and again. And now we really enjoy all being out together and having those memories.
Baby, it’s cold outside… and the kids are jumping off of the walls! Winter on Cape Cod is beautiful and cold. While many of the activities we love here in the Summer are closed for the season, there are still plenty of kid-friendly winter activities on Cape Cod.
When cabin fever sets in, turn to this bucket list of indoor and outdoor fun to help pick your next winter adventure. And as a bonus, this time of year the lines are typically shorter, and parking is more accessible!
Kick off the New Year in Chatham
First Night Chatham is a family-friendly event with a great mix of indoor and outdoor activities, including early fireworks at the kid-friendly time of 6pm!
Winter hikes give you a whole new perspective on the Cape’s natural beauty. Check out all the great family-friendly recommendations shared by Get Outside Cape Cod.
Explore a New Town
Make it a day exploring a new area, visit a playground, check out the library, and top it off for a treat from a local coffee shop.
Go Bowling
Old school candle-pin or high-tech, the Cape offers some great bowling. We love The Alley Bowling and BBQ in Orleans for the food and fun retro vibe. Ryan’s Ten Pin Eatery & Arcade at the Cape Cod Mall is a blast with the most high-tech blowing experience I’ve ever had. The attached arcade and restaurant make it an easy pick for added fun. And don’t forget the Lanes Bowl & Bistro in Mashpee.
Go Out to the Movies
Thanks to streaming we watch many movies at home, but my kids especially love the experience of going to the movie theater. We were delighted last year when the Orpheum in Chatham hosted a winter version of their popular free kids summer movie series. Fingers crossed they bring it back again in 2024.
Cape Cod Children’s Museum
This play-and-learn museum has over 20 interactive exhibits that keep the kids engaged. The only reason my kids left the last time was because it was closing for the day!
Check Out New Playgrounds
On those warmer winter days, we love to visit some of our favorite “destination” playgrounds including Puma Park in Truro and Luke’s Love in Barnstable.
Visit the Beach
The novelty of snow at the beach (if we actually get some this year) isn’t lost on any age. Pick your favorite and make it a quick visit followed by hot chocolate at a local coffee shop.
Explore a New Library
Each of the Cape’s libraries has something different to offer and visiting a new one to explore their children’s room is a fun way to spend an afternoon. Plus, thanks to the CLAMS Network, you can check out and return books pretty much everywhere.
Join a Children’s Place Playgroup
From hiking to cooking to yoga, we have had so many great experiences participating in different groups run by the Children’s Place. Check their website for the most up to date listing, and be sure to register early.
Make Something Together
My 4-year-old and I recently took a class at Dot to Dot Art Workshop in Harwich and we are hooked. The kid-friendly space was filled with sunlight and fun for both of us. Also check out Kids Create in Centerville.
Cape Codder Waterpark
We went once almost two years ago and my kids are still talking about it. Check out the after-school special on weekdays for a special price.
Tumble Time Gymnastics opens up their gym to kiddos Monday through Thursday from 11am-1pm on non-vacation weeks. It’s a blast! Xtreme Athletics in Sandwich just started offering Jump and Play Monday-Friday from 11:30am -1:30pm.
Whydah Pirate Museum
Step back in time and learn about one of the Cape’s most famous shipwrecks, The Whydah. The Pirate Museum is fascinating for all ages, but better for older kids as there is a lot to read.
Woods Hole Science Aquarium
It’s tiny, but perfect for kids. Check the Science Aquarium website for hours, as it is not always open on weekends.
Visit Your Local Community Center
From open gym time for families to game rooms your local community center has much to offer.
Cape Cod Museum of Natural History
The museum provides a nice mix of indoor and outdoor fun with exhibits, family-friendly activities and a host of trails right outside their back door, provides a nice mix of indoor and outdoor fun.
Enter the storybook world of Peter Cottontail and his friends all created by local author Thornton W. Burgess. This property in East Sandwich also has trails and a museum to explore.
Go to the Mall
Malls are failing in other parts of the country, yet from all appearances The Cape Cod Mall is thriving. It offers a great opportunity to walk around when the weather outside is not cooperative, and there are a few play areas that my kids love.
My kids jumped for joy when Ryan’s Amusements announced in October that they would be adding an indoor inflatable park at their South Yarmouth location in early 2024. We usually have to travel off Cape to go to places like this. Fingers crossed it opens soon!
Go Over the Bridge
Winter is a great time to head off Cape without the traffic headaches. No matter where you go, there is a lot to explore. If you are headed to Boston, visit our sister site BostonMoms.com for kid-friendly suggestions.
Winter Gear for Kids: Tips & Tricks for Staying Warm
The warm weather and ease of flip-flops and jacket-less days have ended, and the impending winter and frigid temps are right around the corner. But we don’t have to let this stop us from getting outside and reaping the benefits of fresh air, no matter the weather! I have some tips about dressing your kids in winter gear for the weather so you can get the most out of your outdoor time. Don’t worry; it doesn’t come with a hefty price tag, either!
Layer, layer, layer that winter gear!
Start with a base layer that fits snugly to the body. While wool base layer sets are ideal, you can use jammies; they will work well too! After your base layer, add an insulated layer like a down-filled coat. The top layer should be waterproof, especially if you plan to play in the snow or on a rainy day. We have used these full-body rain suits as a waterproof outer layer, and they work fantastic!
Remember the accessories!
Mittens, gloves, scarves, and hats, oh my! These extra items can make your child more comfortable in the cold and play outside longer! I suggest fleece-lined hats for warmth and comfort, mittens for babies and toddlers, and gloves for older children who want improved dexterity.
Shop secondhand for your winter gear
Don’t sleep on thrift stores, consignment stores, or online stores like Poshmark or Kidizen. You can find gently used winter gear for a fraction of the price. Once the kids have outgrown their clothes, you can also turn around and re-sell them to make a few bucks, too!
Size up with your winter gear for kids
When buying your winter gear, consider buying a size up so your kids can get more than just one season of use. This practice also allows for more of those cozy layers underneath. I love getting more bang for my buck, especially regarding something important like winter gear for the kids.
Keep extra winter gear in your car
This tip is a game-changer. We always keep a spare set of clothes and extra hats, gloves, and a coat in the car for impromptu outdoor play. The weather can be unpredictable in the winter, and having these additional items is helpful if the need arises!
Get outside, even if it’s cold
And lastly, be consistent with getting outside with your kids in their winter gear. It’s ok if you only stay out for 20 minutes! That fresh air and time in nature is still beneficial. By consistently going outside, your kids will become more resilient and used to the lower temps!
I hope these tips help you stay toasty warm this winter while still enjoying the great outdoors. And remember, if it takes you longer to get everyone dressed than the time you spent outside, it’s still worth it! I promise they will put their gear on themselves one day while you sit back and drink your coffee in peace.
Hanukkah is upon us, and for my family that means it is time to make the latkes. They are a delicious snack or appetizer, and for those who might be apprehensive about making latkes from scratch, don’t worry! They are not difficult to make. While you’re cooking, the smell of the latkes fills the house, and the taste brings me right back to childhood. As a bonus, my two children – who are very picky eaters – like to eat them too. Like previous recipes I’ve shared, in my experience when kids help cook, they are more likely to try what they make. Making latkes with kids is a great idea!
If you’ve never tried potato latkes before, you are missing out. Latkes are similar to a hashbrown patty, but in my opinion, they are more flavorful and taste better. Latkes can be served with a variety of toppings to accentuate the flavor. After getting all the ingredients, follow my step-by-step recipe and I promise you’ll thank me later.
The 6 Ingredients
5 lbs Russet Potatoes (peeled and sliced into chunks)
2 Sweet Onions (peeled and sliced into chunks)
2 Cups Flour
1 tbs Baking Powder
1 tbs Salt
Vegetable Oil
Getting Down to Business
I always go big when making potato latkes. Why? Because you can never have enough. Latkes freeze well as long as you do so properly, and when re-heated they taste just like they did fresh out of the oven. Plus, if you’re going to get your kitchen a bit messy during the cooking process, you might as well be all in! With that said, making a small batch of latkes is always an option if you prefer. In the past, I’ve varied the amount of potatoes I use depending on whether I’m entertaining, but this year I went with the whole 5-pound bag in advance of hosting friends in a couple days. You can easily pare down the ingredients I listed above to measurements that suit your needs. For reference, my batch resulted in filling about two one-gallon bags worth of potato latkes.
To get started making latkes, you first will need to peel your potatoes.
Next, I cut my potatoes into chunks. I also peel and cut my onions (I used two Vidalia onions) as well.
For the next step, you can use a heavy-duty blender like the Vitamix or a Food Processor. I happen to have a Vitamix and have found it works very well. This explains why you will first want to dice up the potatoes and onions into small chunks. I then put small batches of potatoes and onions into the Vitamix until they have a shredded consistency. Once they are blended, I place the shredded mix into a large bowl.
Once all of your potatoes and onions are shredded to your liking, you will need to strain out as much water as you can. I take a dish towel and put it inside of a strainer. I pour small batches of the mixture inside and then squeeze out whatever water I can. You will want to keep doing this until you get through all of the potatoes and onions. As I strain each batch, I transfer the strained mixture into a different large bowl to keep track.
Once the entire mixture is strained, you will add in your eggs, flour, salt and baking powder. I put in 6 eggs, 2 cups of flour, 1 tablespoon of salt and 1 tablespoon of baking powder and mix with a wooden spoon. When working with such a big batch, I have found it easier to separate the mixture into two separate bowls.
Next, you will want to take out a frying pan (or two frying pans, depending on your comfort level of cooking multiple latkes at the same time) and fill it up with about a half an inch of vegetable oil. I recommend using a frying pan that is deeper to prevent as much oil as possible from splattering. I turn up my burner to medium heat and make sure the oil is hot before I begin frying. You will know what temperature is best for your burner, just be mindful not to have your burner temperature too high or the latkes will burn.
To fry up your latkes, you will want to scoop small amounts of the mixture into the hot oil. For reference, I use the ¼ measuring cup as a guide. Let the latke mixture fry on one side until golden brown and then flip over to the other side.
Once done frying both sides, transfer the latke to a plate with paper towel so you can drain any excess oil.
Repeat this process until you have made all of your latkes!
Making Latkes with Kids
Making potato latkes might not seem like an activity for your young kids, but you can definitely involve your kids and have fun. My youngest, two-year-old Addison, was my helper this year and she absolutely loved being in charge of putting the ingredients into the blender. She was also a big fan of mixing up everything into the bowls. Did some of the ingredients spill out in the process because a two-year old isn’t exactly gentle with a wooden spoon? Yes, of course, but our latkes still tasted delicious!
Time to Eat
Latkes taste best when hot. If you’re not serving the latkes right away, you can always freeze or refrigerate your latkes and then re-heat them in the oven or toaster oven. In my experience, when reheating latkes at 400 degrees, it only takes a few minutes for them to be ready.
There are so many great toppings to enjoy on top of your latkes. Apple sauce is a popular choice, as is sour cream (though I wouldn’t recommend trying apple sauce and sour cream at the same time). Some people also enjoy their latkes with ketchup.
In my family, my grandfather (Grampy) started a tradition by eating his latkes with sour cream and a sprinkle of sugar. This unique combination has been gained many fans through the years.
Happy Hanukkah! Do you have any topping suggestions for latkes or holiday family traditions you’d like to share? If so, I’d love to hear them. Feel free to tag @capecodmoms or @snfenlon on Instagram.
Intimacy can be a real challenge for couples with young children. It can also be a really hard topic to bring up.
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Your OBGYN is going to focus on the technicalities of your birthing body and reproductive system. Your child’s pediatrician is going to focus on baby. If you have a therapist, they are going to focus on your emotions and if you are getting enough rest. Your mom friends are likely going to focus on baby’s sleeping, feeding, milestones and baby gear. Even if you bring up intimacy challenges, everyone is going to say, “Yeah, that’s normal”.
We can do better to understand and mitigate these challenges. Intimacy should bring closeness and rejuvenation, not a cycle of frustration, disappointment and conflict.
Some Things To Think About
She may be experiencing physical and hormonal challenges because of pregnancy, childbirth, breastfeeding, sleepless nights or the “baby blues”.
He may be tired also, but his natural hormonal and emotional needs for connection through sex are typically unaltered by his daddy role. This makes for a discrepancy in desire, which is actually common across the marital span, with 79% of couples reporting it as an issue. (1)
Good News – 74% of couples who communicate well have more sex and report greater happiness in marriage. (1)
Here are some ways that you can increase communication while juggling life with young children.
Time
Set aside a check-in time with your partner for each day. Pick a time where you predict the fewest distractions. Aim for 10 minutes. This might be over your morning coffee or a cold drink, maybe sitting in a sunny room, outside while the children are on the swing, baby’s nap time. I can relate to that feeling of impossibility, but you can do it! Maybe not every day, but more days than not. You just need to get your finger on the pulse of your partner. “How are you doing?” “What are you feeling?” “How can I help?” Being intentional about this shows that you value your relationship and each other.
Energy
If you are thoroughly exhausted, you may not be in the mood to tend to the emotional needs of another adult, even if that other adult is your partner. Not that men don’t get depleted, but it’s harder for women, because we don’t have all that testosterone to keep our energy and libido up. Men – recognize that she is not you and cannot perform like you. Whether you are both working out of the home or not, with a young family, you are both stretched thin. Help her catch her breath. Make way for her to have a nap. Do what you can to acknowledge her challenges. Women – recognize that he is not you and cannot turn off his hormones or the sense of love that comes from sexual intimacy. Do what you can to take care of yourself, get a rest for yourself, and do things that help you connect with feeling sexy or romantic. It’s simply not going to work to put intimacy on hold until baby sleeps through the night.
Dates
“Us time” is so important. The daily check-ins are a great foundation, but couples need time together away from their daily routine. Not everyone has extra money in this phase of life, or access to family, friends or babysitters. If you do, great! Make use of it! But if you don’t, find a way to make your bedroom a magical oasis with scented candles or oils, fresh linens, lighting, music that puts you in the mood, a special dessert. If you have money but no babysitter, take the money you would have spent on a few dates and consider buying a massage table or some electric hot stones. Dial up some massage videos on YouTube like this one. Use your imagination.
Affection
Sometimes women avoid touch because they assume, maybe correctly, maybe not, that to him, touch means, “I want sex,” when she feels like she has nothing left to give. Only through communication can you work this out. There are many forms of affection. Try making a list of the things that draw you closer to him, and him to her. Share your list with each other. Keep each other’s list handy. This is “loving on purpose” and it can make a big difference to both of you.
Talk
Talk to each other about sexuality, how you are feeling, what you enjoy, what you don’t enjoy, what you are feeling challenged by. If you’ve been together for 2 years or 5 years, or since you were teenagers, don’t assume you desire all the same things you did at the beginning. When we were younger, 3 trips through the drive-through per week may have been just fine. Now you might want a 4 course meal once a week and only one trip through the drive-through. Not talking leads to making assumptions that may or may not be correct.
It’s totally normal that baby becomes the center of our life for a time, but baby needs you to regroup. Their safety, stability and future depend on you being a strong couple.
Visit Tracy here if you and your partner are looking for support with intimacy.
(1) Feldhahn & Sytsma, Secrets of Sex & Marriage, 2023. (p. 109, p. 60)
Between demanding careers, kids, and other obligations (forget trying to find time for self-care), many families understand that hiring a nanny is the best option in order to keep their lives and household running smoothly. Different from a babysitter, parent’s helper or housekeeper, nannies are childcare professionals, often with a college or more advanced degrees, multiple certifications and specialized training under our belts.
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If you have a nanny, or are considering hiring one, here are the top five things we want you to know!
Communication, always and in all ways!
TALK, TALK and TALK some more. Be clear and direct with your expectations of the role, the job description, your personal preferences for your little one, and the way you see your family and household. Don’t leave anything out. Unspoken issues are the most common reason the nanny/family relationship breaks down. Resentment builds quickly, so speak to one another honestly and often.
Get familiar with industry standards.
As an employer, you have an obligation to understand best practices. A contract, cost of living wage increase, guaranteed hours, PTO, mileage reimbursement and a health insurance stipend are some of the things you need to consider. There are multiple resources for detailed information on all things nanny. Check out Facebook and Reddit parent groups, and reach out to local agencies. www.nannycounsel.com is a treasure trove of free info, and agencies like Nanny Kate and Co. www.nannykateandco.com and The Nanny Hub www.thenannyhub.com are locally owned, and can help Cape parents navigate it all.
We don’t get paid for the hour. We get paid for the value we bring to the hour.
A nanny’s rate should be based on our years of paid experience, education,training and references in ADDITION TO the job description and COL in the area. You wouldn’t ask your plumber or hair stylist or attorney to lower their hourly rate. If you can’t afford the rate of the candidates you are considering, a different child care arrangement may better suit your situation.
Have a backup plan!
Nannies are givers by nature and emotionally invested in your family. We will often push our own boundaries to ensure your family is taken care of. But like you, we get sick, have emergencies and family obligations outside of work. Please have a plan in place and a compassionate heart when these things come up.
Celebrate us!
We give our heart and soul to your children and do our best to ensure their emotional, social, intellectual and physical development is a priority. Take the time to tell us you see us. Whether during National Nanny Recognition Week (annually in September), on our Nannyversary (the anniversary of the day we started with your family), at holiday time or just a random Wednesday, a kind note, sentimental gift, an unexpected paid day off, cash bonus or gift card goes a long way to promote overall job satisfaction and generates good will and helps cement our commitment to your family.
We adore your children.
In many cases, we spend more time with them than members of our own families. But despite the countless hours of face time and loving interaction we have with your littles, we understand we are NOT YOU! We empathize with how hard it can be to leave your child in the care of another person, and to balance ALL the things.
Thank you for trusting us, and for valuing our hard work. We love having a job which loves us back.
Black Friday and Cyber Monday are behind us, the holidays are almost here and if you’re anything like me, you are definitely feeling the pressure to find the perfect gifts (this happens to me every year!). Considering how many toy options are out there in the marketplace for your kids to see, even compiling a list can be overwhelming. Whether we are walking through a store, watching TV or on the iPad, I am constantly told “add that to my Santa list.”
This year, I’ve been trying to focus specifically on gifts that my kids will want to play with for a longer period of time, rather than something to use once or a toy they will grow out of quickly.
Shopping Local
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While I do a lot of my shopping online because of the ease, convenience and price, there’s an undeniable appeal about shopping locally. There’s something an online setting just can’t replicate when it comes to going into a brick-and-mortar shop decorated for the holidays, especially a toy store. I’m sharing some of my top picks for kids that you can find locally on Cape Cod. These toys vary in age recommendations but run the scope of 0-8.
Cape Favorites
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The Cape Cod shops featured in this piece are Bugg’s Place Toys on Main Street in Hyannis, Fox and Kit Kids Shop in Mashpee Commons and Pocket Full of Posies in Osterville. These three upper and mid Cape stores are just a few of my favorites (and my kids) all year round, but particularly when it comes to the holidays. Of course, there are multiple great options for kids gifts across the Cape, and I encourage you to check out as many as you can in the coming weeks.
DISCLAIMER: I am sharing where I have seen the following toys. With that said, these toys are likely available at other locations, and keep in mind they could sell out over the course of the holiday season.
10 Gifts for Kids You Can Purchase Locally
Reusable Silicone Mat
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This mat made by HeyDoodle is one of my most used items while on-the-go, and something I am constantly asked about by fellow parents. It is a silicone mat that comes in multiple designs with a pack of markers and a plastic resealable bag. It can be used by a wide variety of ages. For example, my 2 and 5-year-olds are both obsessed and constantly ask to use it when we are out and even at home. We have the princess and animal mats, and let me tell you, these mats have saved many dinners out at crowded Cape Cod restaurants! The best part about these mats is they can be used over and over again by simply wiping them clean with a damp paper towel or a baby wipe. The mats are available at Fox and Kit Kids Shop in Mashpee Commons.
Corelle 12” Baby Doll
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This baby doll is too cute. It’s soft body and small size make it the perfect doll for little hands. My 2-year-old immediately runs to the one on display at Bugg’s Place Toys and I am constantly having to pry it out of her hands before we leave. While we do have many baby dolls at home, there’s something about this one that is extra special. We purchased one for the holidays and I know it will be a HUGE hit. A bonus of this doll, Corelle makes all types of cute accessories that you can get to accompany the doll by purchasing separately at later dates for special occasions.
Micro Mini Scooter
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This scooter is amazing. We got one for my now 5-year-old daughter during the pandemic and she spent months riding it up and down the hallway and on our street. More than two years later, not only does she still love it, but so does her little sister. The scooter is made well and makes turning very easy. We have the regular micro mini, but I recently saw someone with the foldable version and can honestly say the folding feature is a huge perk. If that option existed a few years ago, I would’ve bought it to make traveling with a scooter even easier. We are constantly throwing ours in the car to take on adventures and I would definitely buy the foldable one if making another purchase. These scooters were available at Fox and Kit Kids Shop, but are sold out. I did find them in stock a little ways off Cape at The Village Toy Shop in Fairhaven.
Sketch Pals
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We have two of these drawing boards (the bumblebee and the ladybug) and they are a huge hit. Both my kids play with them in the car, at restaurants and when sitting in the cart at different stores. My older daughter loves to use it for tic-tac-toe, and my little one has just started drawing herself and likes to demand that you draw very intricate animals for her to guess. These boards are relatively inexpensive, very durable and fit nicely in your diaper bag. You can buy them at Bugg’s Place Toys.
Maileg Mice
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My kids and I have long been eying the Maileg mice. They come in so many cute varieties and can be used for all types of imaginative play. My 5-year-old has run into Pocket Full of Posies and said that these mice would make the best addition to her doll house. You could easily add Maileg mice to your existing dollhouse if you have on, or purchase the Maileg dollhouse and start building a collection. In addition to the mice, Maileg sells many different types of accessories. Maileg is a reputable brand, so keep in mind these pieces require a bit of an investment compared to some of the more inexpensive options for little kids gifts, but you are getting a high-quality product. If your little ones are like mine and they have an eye for details and a love of accessories, these might be the perfect gift this holiday season.
We just purchased the tooth fairy set to give my daughter when she loses her first tooth, which she tells me is going to happen any day now! This set is so cute and comes with a little box so your child can put their first lost tooth inside.
Glo Pals
For some kids, taking a bath can be a chore. So, if you’re looking to liven up bath time, these Glo Pals might do the trick for you. Glo Pals are a great accessory to make bath time fun, and they come in a variety of colors and characters to really take your bathtub to the next level. Because Glo Pals are activated by water, they are also an entertaining activity when used outside the tub. All you need to do is place your Glo Pals in a jar or container filled with water for your kids to play. According to Glo Pals, each individual Glo Pal lasts for sixteen lighted hours. Glo Pals turn on when placed in water and shut off when removed from water. You can find Glo Pals at Bugg’s Place Toys and Fox and Kit Kids Shop. As a side note, the brand just came out with new sensory jars which look very cute. While we haven’t tried the new sensory jars yet, we were so satisfied with the initial Glo Pals that we did purchase the sensory jars for the holidays this year and I am very excited for my kids to use them in and outside the tub. You can put the cubes from the Glo Pals into the jars as well as all sorts of other mixers.
Air Toobz
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Air Toobz was on my list this year and I can’t wait for my kids to open this one! I saw the Toy Testing Sisters product review and was sold right away. Air Toobz is an open-ended STEM toy that can be used in a variety of different ways for multiple ages. In the most simple terms, you configure the tubes in a design and then air pushes the balls out. This is a great gift for your kids to use with siblings of friends on a playdate where they can work together. I know Air Toobz will be used in our home for years to come. You can purchase Air Toobz at the Fox and Kit Kids Shop.
Fat Brain Toys SpinAgain Kids Stacking Toy
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The Fat Brain Toy SpinAgain Stacking Toy has gotten countless hours of use at our house. It was initially purchased when my youngest was a baby, and it is still used by her regularly two-and-a-half years later. The Fat Brain Toy SpinAgain Stacking Toy is mesmerizing for babies to watch when an adult puts the rings on, and as your baby becomes a toddler, your child will want to do it over and over again. Of the multiple stacking toys we’ve tried over the years, the Fat Brain Toy SpinAgain Stacking Toy has definitely been the most satisfying for my youngest. This one is available at Bugg’s Place Toys.
Dozy Dinkum
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Dozy Dinkum’s soft baby dolls are so cute and cuddly. They are a perfect fit for a child’s little hands to tote around. My 2-year-old sleeps with her two Dozy Dinkums every night and takes them with her everywhere throughout the day. She has one with pink outfit and one with a purple outfit (full disclosure, I initially bought each of my kids a Dozy Dinkum, but my younger one loved them so much that her older sister let her keep both). If you’re in the market for a baby doll that is more like a stuffed animal, I highly recommend the Dozy Dinkum. We spotted these dolls at Pocket Full of Posies.
I hope you this piece sparked an idea or two for your little ones. If you have other shops on Cape Cod that you like to frequent or toy recommendations, we would love to hear from you. Feel free to tag @CapeCodMoms and me @Snfenlon on Instragram with your picks!
While the holidays bring excitement for our children, they can also bring stress on parents experiencing financial hardship. Below are some resources for Cape Cod and Islands residents that provide holiday gift assistance. The organizations listed below aid Cape Cod families in need but have deadlines to request toys, clothing, or financial support, so inquire as soon as possible. Would you like to sponsor a child or family in need? These organizations take donations as well and there’s a sponsor-a-family resource listed at the end.
In need of toys?
The Marine Corps Reserve Toys for Tots Cape Cod and the Islands has a toy request form that is due December 8, 2023, with toy distribution dates from December 1-12. You will be asked for your children’s names, ages, and a wish list of toys when you sign up. Be sure to check your email as they will communicate all information via email (check the spam folder!). You will need to show ID and show proof of custody for the children when you pick up the toys.
In need of clothing and/or gifts?
My Brother’s Keeper is a nonprofit that offers Christmas assistance to eastern Massachusetts, including Cape Cod. They take only requests from parents/guardians and only by telephone. Call 508-238-2562 and be prepared to share the names, birthdates, clothing sizes, and gift ideas of those living in your household. All gifts will be delivered between December 1-24 and they will ask for two phone numbers to ensure communication for delivery.
Make a Teen Happy is a program through the Community Action Committee of Cape Cod and the Islands geared toward providing winter clothing to teens (ages 13-18). The registration deadline is December 1st; call 508-771-1727 extension 117 to register.
The Salvation Army Hyannis Corps offers holiday assistance on Cape Cod for youth clothing and holiday gifts. Contact their office at 508-775-0364 for more information.
In need of financial support?
The Cape Cod Times Needy Fund provides urgent financial assistance to Cape and Island residents who are experiencing temporary financial hardships. You can call 1-800-422-1446 on weekdays, or email [email protected]
Looking to sponsor a family?
Cape Cod Broadcasting Media has partnered with Mid-Cape Home Centers to bring Christmas Wishes, a program aimed to support families in need this Christmas season. Cape Cod Child and Family Services has partnered with these organizations to coordinate the needs of over 100 families in need of help. Are you looking to sponsor a family? Read more about each family on the website. Fill out the form below the description to provide financial assistance in the form of gifts, clothing, and gift cards.
Get ready to jingle all the way through Plymouth and the Cape Cod Canal areas with these pre-bridge holiday events! From dazzling lights to Santa sightings and artisan markets, join us in exploring the festive fun before the bridge. Let’s get into the holiday spirit together!
Edaville | 5 Pine Street, Carver
Experience the magic of the holiday season at Edaville! Dive into the festive spirit with Santa meet-and-greets, mesmerizing light spectacles, enchanting train rides, and much more! Make sure to grab your tickets online in advance for an unforgettable holiday adventure.
Festival of Lights | Thursdays – Sundays, November 9 through December 31 (closed Thanksgiving and Christmas Day)
Immerse yourself in the Festival of Lights at Edaville—an extraordinary holiday event showcasing steam train rides, delightful food, support for local businesses and crafters, vintage amusement rides, and much more! Marvel at over 250,000 Christmas lights, and don’t miss the chance to meet Santa himself! Tickets for this memorable experience start at $12.95.
North Pole Limited | Wednesdays, November 15 through December 20, 5 PM and 6:30 PM
Embark on a thrilling journey aboard the North Pole Limited, a vintage steam train experience at Edaville! Savor hot chocolate and cookies while marveling at the stunning lights and spending time with Santa’s cheerful elves. Upon arrival at the North Pole, Santa himself hops aboard the train to greet everyone and generously presents each child with a special gift.
Tickets for this enchanting adventure start at $59.95 (children two and under enter for free).
Santa’s Express | Saturdays and Sundays, November 11 through December 23, 12:45 PM and 1:30 PM
Delight in the exclusive Santa’s Express VIP train ride, granting early access to the park to meet Santa! Sip on milk or juice paired with cookies while visiting with Santa and Mrs. Claus. Following this magical ride, dive into the full Edaville experience, including amusement rides, mesmerizing lights, and regular train rides!
Secure your spot for this adventure with tickets starting at $69.95 (children two and under enter for free).
The Polar Express™ Train Ride
70 Main Street, Buzzards Bay | Thursday – Sunday starting November 30; Daily from December 19 – 23
Step into the enchanting world of The Polar Express™ by donning your Christmas jammies for a 1-1.5 hour train ride to meet Santa! Indulge in hot chocolate and cookies while being entertained by dancing chefs and servers performing classic Christmas carols, along with a heartwarming reading of the book. As you reach the North Pole, get ready for Santa and his merry elves to join the train, spreading joy as they greet passengers and hand out the very first gift of Christmas.
Tickets for this magical journey start at $49 (children three and under $5), and advanced purchase is required.
Kiwanis Christmas Tree Lighting in Historic Plymouth
Main and Court Street, Plymouth | December 1, 5 PM – 8 PM
Celebrate the holiday spirit at the Kiwanis Christmas Tree Lighting in Historic Plymouth! Join the festive holiday kickoff featuring a lively parade, the magical tree lighting ceremony, and the Winter Lights 5k (it’s stroller-friendly!). Enjoy the festive atmosphere with Santa, lively face-painting activities, captivating crafts, and memorable hayrides for everyone to enjoy.
Wareham Christmas Parade
Main Street, Wareham | December 2, 2 PM
Get ready to kick off the holiday season with Santa, Rudolph, Frosty, and all their pals as they march down Main Street in Wareham! Stick around after the parade for some delicious eats or to check out the fantastic local businesses. It’s a blast for the whole family!
Light the Night in Brewster Gardens
30 Water Street, Plymouth | Lighting Ceremony December 2 at 4:30 PM; Lights displayed December 2 – 31 from dusk till dawn
Enjoy the dazzling light display at Brewster Gardens this year! Then, head over to downtown Plymouth for some holiday shopping at the local businesses or grab a bite to eat at one of the fantastic restaurants!
Christmas in the Village
186 Onset Ave, Onset | December 9, 12 PM – 3 PM
Join the festive vibes at Onset’s Christmas in the Village! Hang out with Santa, get your face painted, and enjoy being serenaded by the Victorian carolers. Explore the vendor market for unique finds, or get crafty with DIY arts and crafts! Best of all, this event is free, and there’s complimentary parking available.
Candy Cane Craft Fair
Mass. Maritime Academy, 101 Academy Drive, Buzzards Bay | December 9, 9 AM – 3 PM
Join the 2nd Annual Candy Cane Craft Fair hosted by the Mass. Maritime Academy Parents Association—an event supporting their cadets. Discover an array of crafts and goodies, and contribute to a good cause!
Makers Market
Sprezzatura Boutique, 1 Main St, Plymouth | December 17, 3 PM – 6 PM
Support local women in business at Sprezzatura Boutique’s Makers Market this holiday season! Explore handcrafted gifts from talented local artisans. Whether you’re looking for the ideal gift for a particular person or just browsing, this market offers something for everyone on your list. And don’t forget to check out the Hot Chocolate Bar!
As the holiday magic continues across Plymouth and the Cape Cod Canal area, these pre-bridge holiday events create a vibrant mosaic of lights, parades, markets, and festive cheer. Keep the holiday spirit alive and make unforgettable memories at these delightful holiday events before the bridge!
Every mom can relate to the knee-jerk refrain, “I’m so busy!” when asked how they’re doing. Your to-do lists are endless. The voice inside your head nagging you to do ‘just one more’ task before collapsing into bed. You’re juggling kids, work, household chores, and relationships, and self-care is the first thing that disappears from your never-ending list.
What if you had more minutes in your day to complete daily tasks without burnout? Imagine more time to exercise, catch up with a friend, or explore a new hobby. It’s possible that reframing your time management is key.
Try these 5 time management tips to gain more time for YOU without sacrificing your family.
Simplify
Your expectations of what can be done in a 24-hour period might be too high. Decluttering your to-do’s is key to creating more time so you can focus on what is truly important to you and your family. Give yourself permission to say ‘no’ so you can make space for your priorities.
2. Delegate
Take a look at your to-do list and figure out what someone else can do for you. Can you hire a cleaning service twice a month? Can your kids start doing their own laundry? Can your partner take on dental appointments for the family?
Hard truth: Sometimes you’re too busy because you won’t let someone else help because you feel like you should be able to do it all. Letting go of control creates more ease and time.
3. Automate
Setting up automations takes time upfront yet saves time in the long run. What can you automate to make life easier? Grocery shopping. Monthly pet food delivery. Online bill payment. Meal services. Reminders for annual home maintenance.
4. Systematize
Creating systems may sound overwhelming but don’t overcomplicate it. Simple routines and checklists reduce the mental load of motherhood, which generates more time.
What routines would make repeating tasks run more smoothly and quickly? Add checklists to make routines into habits. Use visual checklists or wipe boards for kids.
Daily routines, such as expecting your kids to empty their own backpacks after school, can save 15 minutes.
5. Strategize weekly
Set aside time on Fridays to plan the following week with your partner or by yourself if you’re a single mom. Planning ahead ensures that schedule changes don’t catch you off guard. Last minute scrambling to fit in doctor’s appointments or teacher conferences can waste time and leave you feeling out of control. With enough lead time, you can fill in the gaps and make needed adjustments with ease.
Incorporating these time management tips can help you reclaim precious moments for yourself and your family, leading to a more balanced and relaxing life.
